Tuesday, September 20, 2016

Operation Taking Back the Nights

I'm not sure what prompted me to do this; exhaustion, curiosity... but on Saturday night, I asked Chuck to switch sides of the bed with me.  For years (and years and years), I have gotten up with kids during the night.  I am quite sure I have journaled about it over the years, so I am not going to get into the history.  However, I will note that for the last four years or so, it has been Hannah and Christian that are my frequent night visitors.  But it wasn't until Cameron was about 7 that he finally gave up his nightly visits.
Back to Saturday night, Christian got up and went to my side of the bed only to find Chuck.  I'm not sure at what point Christian realized it is Chuck, but it did take Christian quite a while to wake Chuck up. Chuck attempted to take him back to bed, but Christian started to cry (I am not sleeping through this but I am waiting to see what happens), so Chuck sat with him on the couch.  In the mean time Hannah walked down the hall and ignored Chuck's demands of not going into the room.  She climbed in bed with me.  I thought it was Christian and that Chuck gave up.  However, after Chuck got Christian to go back to bed and he came back to get Hannah, who, started to cry, I said, "Christian, it's okay, you always go back to bed, I will walk with you."  It's not until we were walking down the hall that I realized it was Hannah not Christian.  She got back into bed and I laid down with her for a few minutes before I went back to bed.
This is a pretty typical night for me.  Maybe even with a visit or two less than normal.  In the morning Chuck says, "That is ridiculous.  Tonight I am starting Operation Taking Back the Nights." He told the kids that if they get up during the night, he is going to put them to work.  (Of course, Hannah freaked out about this, "Mommy, please don't let Daddy do that." ) So, Sunday night he slept on the floor in front of our hallway.  I told him he was being ridiculous and that I am going to sleep with him on the floor.  That did not persuade him to get back in the bed and I did not stay on the floor. Believe it or not, he did not know I had stepped over him to go back to the room.   There were no night time visitors that night.
On Monday night, there were no night time visitors.
On Tuesday night, Christian come into my room having walked around Chuck.  We stepped over Chuck and I took him back to his room.  He was complaining of growing pains, so I rubbed his legs for a bit.  A couple hours later he comes back, again walking around Chuck.  He was still complaining of growing pains, so I told him to tell Daddy that Mommy said to get him ibuprofen.  He did tell Chuck to get him ibuprofen and Chuck did get it for him and he went back to bed.  He didn't even have to pull the Mommy said card.  In the morning, I said to Chuck, "So the little one got past you?" He looked at me like I had to be joking.  I'm not sure why he was surprised by this, in all the years I have been getting up with the kids, there have been very few times he has woken up.  And most of those times were probably when I woke him up.  So he sad, "It's time to enter Phase 2," which meant closing the door to our room.
On Wednesday there were no visits attempted.
On Thursday, Christian attempted a visit, but it was before Chuck was asleep, so he was caught.  That same night, Christian got up to use the bathroom, he saw Chuck, said "humph" and went back to bed.  On Friday night, there were no visitors.  At this point, Hannah thinks it's great that Chuck is sleeping in the hallway.  He is closer to her and can better protect her.
On Saturday night Chuck slept in our bed and did not hear Christian come in.  And in the morning, he did not ask if I had any visitors during the night and I did not tell him.
Now it is Tuesday and I had no visitors Sunday or Monday night.  However, I'm not convinced that Operation Taking Back the Nights was successful.  We might need another few nights to tell.

Update - one month later:

Operation Taking Back the Nights was not successful.  After many nights in the hall and several catches, Chuck eventually made his way back into the bedroom.  (I think it was because he was too tired to make his bed in the hallway some nights and not feeling well a couple others.) But when things got bad again, he moved back into the hallway.  No one got past him, but there were some dirty looks given before the culprit (usually Christian) went back to bed.  Last night Christian was up at 4am.  It's been a while since Hannah has gotten up.  I do get a good nights sleep when Chuck is in the hall, but I don't think it's a solution.  I think we just have to weather the storm.

Update - end of the year (several months later)

I still have frequent night visitors.  I have really tried to stop giving up my bed though and always take the kid back to his/her room. Chuck tried to get involved for a while, but he just makes things worse.  So I told him to go back to not knowing what is going on during the night.  And it would appear as if he has done just that.  For more than a week, lil C decided to share the room with H. That made her very happy because she didn't have to sleep alone.  It also made big C happy because he got to sleep alone. However, it was short lived.  Lil C eventually made his way back to his room.  And I am back to getting up with whoever at night.


H didn't like the trundle bed being out all day, but she eventually got tired of pulling it out each night, so they decided to go with the floor.


Wednesday, August 3, 2016

First Day of School 2016

6th, 4th and 1st grade 





Summer Swimming

For the second year, Cameron and Hannah swam on the Dobson Dolphins Swim Team.  Christian didn't want to join swim team, but he is a great swimmer and did take some semi-private lessons.  In addition to swim team practice, we spent a lot of time swimming over the summer.  We even took the kids to SunSplash and despite our low expectations, we had a great time!





Hannah;s fastest times: Free; 54:32; Back: 1:06:88; Breast: 1:03:46; Fly: 59:21
Hannah's favorite stroke: Butterfly
Cameron's fastest times:  Free 43:12; Back: 53:27; Breast; 58:53; Fly: 1:06:33
Cameron's favorite stroke: Free


Tuesday, August 2, 2016

Summer Backpacking 2016

Few in number but mighty in spirit, Derek, Regan, Pyper, Chuck, Cameron, Hannah, and Christian backpacked up to Weminuche Pass on the Continental Divide, north of Pagosa Springs, CO.  They had a turbo-boost from Jonathan, Darien, Annie, Ellie, and Sarah who met them near the trailhead and hiked in to the first night’s camping spot.  The week started out rainy and muddy and finished up sunny and dry.  Highlights included awesome scenery, watching Cameron hang food bags, 4th of July sparklers, teeter-totter at Camp 3, Cameron and Hannah playing together, killer view of The Window and Rio Grande Pyramid from “The Wart,” and cozy cool nights in sleeping bags.  Lowlights included a ridiculous number of flies, forest devastation from bark beetles, and readjustment to city life afterward.  Everyone returned safe and healthy and said at least one time during the trip that they were really glad they came.












* post written by Chuck

Friday, June 17, 2016

Happy Happy Birthday Chuck and Hannah!

Chuck and Hannah's birthday was on Memorial Day this year.  Jonathan, Kami and their kids were in town making the day more fun.  We had mac and cheese with a side of beets for Hannah's birthday dinner on Sunday (per her request).  And we had a BBQ on Memorial Day.  Chuck's birthday present was going on a 4 day/3 night backpacking trip with some friends; no kids and no wives.   They went to Hannah Hot Springs in the Blue Primitive Area in Eastern Arizona.  He said the trip was "perfect". 



We had a swim party for Hannah at Charity's community pool.  What better way to spend the day when it's 115 degrees!  Needless to say, we had the pool to ourselves.  


Raygan, Rylee, Natalie, Audrey, Jackson, Layla, Madelyn, Pyper and Ginger


Hannah hasn't changed much in the last year.  She is still a very enigmatic child.  She can still be found doing cartwheels, handstands, and headstands wherever she can find space.  She started taking dance in January and LOVES it.  So she can often be found dancing around the house.  Her favorite time to show me her skills is when I am trying to talk to another adult or I'm fixing dinner.  She also likes to make up dances to her favorite songs.  And she also likes to write songs.  She needs constant reminders to practice her piano, but it pays off when she does practice because she is getting quite good.  Hannah has a fear of kidnappers and murderers.  So, in October last year after I became worn out from taking her back to her bed at night, she began sleeping on our floor.  She would always start out in her bed, but would make her way into our room during the night.  After some time, she finally stopped asking me to help her settle down on the floor.  That went on for about 5 months or so until were sick of tip toeing around in the morning.  So she started sleeping on the floor in the boy's room.  They soon tired of her tormenting them so I told her she had to sleep in her bed all night from then on.  The first couple nights I laid with her until she fell asleep and had to take her back to bed and lay with her until she fell back asleep.  But after a couple nights, she was doing fine.  We can't go to bed until she is asleep and I still have to take her back to bed occasionally and sometimes I'll wake up to her in our room,  But for the most part she is sleeping in her bed all night.  As she should be at 9 years old! Hannah plays well on her own and doesn't mind helping pick up.  In fact, she will often clean and organize her room with no encouragement.  She has grown quite found of antagonizing her brothers.  That is my biggest source of frustration with Hannah.  But overall, we enjoy having her around and will probably keep her for another year.  At her 9 year old well check, Hannah weighed 54 pounds and was 4 feet 1 and 1/2 inches tall.

Tuesday, June 7, 2016

In the Spirit of Dance

Hannah started a combo dance class (ballet, tap, jazz) class in January at Dance 101.  And she loves it! They had a big recital at the end of the year.  Hannah's class danced ballet and jazz.  She is one of the better ones in her class.  And I am not saying that because she is my daughter.  She has good form and rhythm.  That can't be said for all.